petsnfriends2012, my main problem when going to your site is that I know nothing about your site other than what the buttons say because you dont make any of your information public. That being said, you are losing most people that come and your concentration should probably go from getting more people, to learning how to keep the few that you may have. If you plug in google analytics, and see how long people are staying on each page, you'll understand better how to retain and then grow. I hope that helps, good luck.